Mending Fences is a podcast about dispute resolution and effective ways to communicate and live across differences. Hosts Patrice Brymner and Jennifer Hawthorne are both family mediators and collaborative law attorneys, but their conversations go well beyond family law. They explore the personal, interpersonal, legal, and cultural impact of conflict.
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GUEST: Maria Natapov on the Dynamics of Step-Parenting
Join us as we journey through the delicate web of step-parenting with our guest, step-parenting coach Maria Natapov. What does it truly mean to be a step-parent and how can you navigate this dynamic, emotion-filled terrain? Maria sheds light on these questions and...
Taking Charge of Tough Talks: Tools for Success
Are you shying away from initiating those tough conversations? This episode is filled with practical wisdom and guidance that will empower you to start tough conversations with anyone. Hosts Patrice Brymner and Jen Hawthorne dive into the nuances of understanding your...
Finding Your Way (again): Strategies for Preserving Progress When You Change Course
Is your dispute resolution stuck? Is your divorce mediation stalled? Your collaborative divorce just not moving? As your hosts for this episode of Mending Fences, Patrice Brymner and Jen Hawthorne, we’ll guide you on how to breathe new life into stalled conflict...
GUEST: Karen Van Kooy on Navigating Coercion and Empowerment in Collaborative Divorce and Mediation
Can collaborative divorce or divorce mediation address pressure, coercion, and power imbalances more effectively than litigation? Join us for a deep dive into these questions with collaborative divorce attorney and mediator, Karen Van Kooy. We share our...
Don’t Make Things Worse! What to Avoid in Difficult Conversations
Patrice and Jen each share three things to avoid in any difficult conversation. At Mending Fences, we always encourage people to keep talking, but when should you stop talking? Of course it makes sense to avoid blaming and defending, but how do you do it?...
GUEST: Allyson Clemmons, LICSW, on Discernment Counseling
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When Can I Start Dating?
For some folks, "moving on after a divorce" might happen before the process ends. Patrice and Jen discuss the legal and practical considerations of moving forward. Will it impact the divorce process? How should you talk to your kids about this?...
How Mediation Works
Jen and Patrice explain how mediation works, and discuss how they see their roles as neutral in this process. Listen Now
Who We Are
Patrice Brymner and Jennifer Hawthorne, both mediators and Collaborative Law attorneys, talk a bit about who they are, what they do, and how this podcast came to be. Listen Now